When I was young, I thought other people could give me wisdom. Now that I’m older, I know this isn’t true.
Wisdom is earned, not given. When other people give us the answer, it belongs to them and not us. While we might achieve the outcome we desire, it comes from dependence, not insight. Instead of thinking for ourselves, we’re dependent on the insight of others and the problem is when we assume the insight of others is our own.
Be kind, be helpful or begone!